Monday, December 15, 2008

stepping outside

Another season of writing has begun. These days are rich for my soul. Over the last week I've been editing the "former atheist" book and beginning the new devotional. This afternoon I'm snuggled under a quilt with a hot mug of organic mint tea, a box of Kleenex, warm slippers, and my laptop.

The writing has flowed smoothly, paused only for a short podcast interview from D.C. and a somewhat longer distress call from below. Dad was firing up the wood stove for the first time and as the stove "cured" and the smoke billowed, our dear Jonathan feared he would die from the fumes.

While Bear addressed the root of the fireplace problem, I tended to the fruit from the problem. "Jona," I said calmly, "you won't die. Let's put on winter coats and go outside." Part of Asperger's strength is the ability to hyper-focus on a problem. Part of the shadow of that strength is a vulnerable to getting one's brain "stuck" on a problem. Jona was stuck.

Breathing the fresh (freezing!) outside air, he began to calm down. Watching him I remembered that one of my doctor's recommended spending at least 10 minutes each day outside regardless of the weather. She is wise. There's something about stepping outside that is perspective-inducing...

In fact, I think I'll go find my shoes.

5 Comments:

Blogger Betsy Markman said...

Oh man, it is SO easy to get completely absorbed by the computer! It feels like it's not limiting, because after all, it's a portal to the world! It introduces me to people I never would meet in my backyard. But in a way, it is limiting. I need to get that change of perspective every day, don't I?

Thanks for the reminder.

December 15, 2008 3:51 PM  
Blogger Lattice said...

Alicia, due completely to your blogs I've gradually gained a desire to research Asperger's. Some key words in this post clicked, and I was finally compelled to act tonight. I am certain my son would not be diagnosed with Asperger's, but it was a blessing to read about the symptoms and behaviors. So many kids in this age group work through them to some degree...they're a part of maturing. But as a parent they've surprised and baffled me. I feel empowered to better understand and help my son now--thank you.

Also, I could never quite connect with your penchant for Earl Grey, even with a dollop of cream. But organic mint?!...now we're on the same page, girl! ;~)

December 16, 2008 12:29 AM  
Anonymous Nicki said...

I agree. Somehow being out in God's incredible creation beings almost-immediate clarity. One night, about a week ago, my husband and I pulled my daughter around the yard in a sled after dinner. It was cool and clear outside and I still find myself smiling about it.

I, too, love mint tea. I REALLY love sleepytime tea.

December 16, 2008 1:23 PM  
Blogger trainedbyhorses said...

Wow, Alicia. I led a group through one of your bible studies at my church a couple of years back...and occasionally I visit your blog and read the devotions that come to my email inbox...but I missed somehow that your son is Asperger's. Mine is, too. Now he is 16 (diagnosed at age 3)...and God is so good.

December 21, 2008 3:06 PM  
Blogger Carmen said...

It was so fun to read your mentoring blog today (you posted on 15 Dec.)

...i just posted today 'L.A.W. Fulfilled in the Christmas Presence'.

shalom aleichem, dear Sister!

December 22, 2008 5:32 AM  

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